In Australia and New Zealand lodge meetings are usually held monthly.
Members are encouraged to attend regularly. However if your partner decides to take on a more active role within his lodge or within the Masonic community, the amount of time he will dedicate to Freemasonry will increase.
There are a lot of Masonic activities throughout the year, like quarterly communications, celebratory dinners and fundraising events, which your partner might choose to take part in also.
Lodge Ethos generally meets on the third Wednesday of the month.