Are there any secrets that my partner must keep from me?

The so-called 'secrets' of modern Freemasonry are used solely as a ceremonial means of demonstrating that one is a Freemason when in lodge meetings.

The point of a Freemason promising not to reveal them - even to you - is basically a dramatic way of testing the good character of those who join.

If you read your partner's notice papers or ritual books, you might discover that there are initials and spaces used to discreetly classify some significant words and signs.

A Freemason will not reveal this important information to you, but if you were really curious, further study of Freemasonry at your local library might be of assistance.